“What’s the Best Type of Partner for Me?”
When you’re looking for the perfect partner, maybe you should delete the word “perfect” from your requirements. Let’s face it, we have all lived long enough to realise that the ultimate, perfect, brand new out-of-the-box partner doesn’t exist.
However, someone who gets on well with you, who will love you with their entire heart and who will treat you with respect is out there, believe it or not. In addition, this amazing person will want to be with you just as much as you will want to be with them. And, although everything between you might not always go smoothly, it will be authentic and real and that is really all that you can ever ask for.
In this reading, we are using the Indigo Angel Oracle Cards by Doreen Virtue and Charles Virtue to get guidance from the angels about choosing the best type of life partner.
Choosing The Kind Of Partner You Deserve
When life throws you a curveball, you need someone to be there with you to take the edge off - someone who supports you, makes you smile when all you would like to do is weep, and who truly gets you.
Love is what binds us together, but it's not always easy to find someone to spend the rest of your life with. Yes, it will require some effort, but when you are finally together it will be magnificent and full of sensations that you can't put into words!
You want to connect with a person with whom you share common interests and experiences, therefore it's crucial to pick someone you feel comfortable talking to and with whom you can enjoy so many amazing new experiences!
You want to have the closest connection with each other that you can possibly ever have. Therefore, you need to be completely honest with yourself when you’re finding the best type of partner for you.
For example, you don’t want someone who is too pushy if you’re the shy and retiring type. Similarly, if you hate spending time outside, you’re not going to want and outdoors enthusiast as your life partner. So, lots of aspects of finding the right person just require using a bit of common sense then waiting for that amazing spark to ignite!
What Else Should You Consider When Looking for True Love?
It’s crucial to find someone with whom you have an amazing connection and rapport. You also want to have the same kinds of morals and beliefs. Talking about this type of thing early on in your connection is imperative so you both know that you’re on the same page. Imagine being with someone for years then realising that one of you wants kids whereas the other one can’t stand the idea!
There is also one aspect of choosing a life partner, that many people don’t think of or face up to – your standards and perhaps even those of your family. Many people expect to find a lover who is of a similar standard of living and with a similar kind of background to them. However, to many other people, this actually doesn’t matter one bit, so it’s all a matter of personal choice.
The importance of selecting a trustworthy partner has never been higher than it is nowadays. There is no way to have a successful relationship if you do not have belief in one another and are unable to trust one another.
You need to put in some quality time with one another too. Being with a person you like having fun with and who makes you feel appreciated is equally vital as sharing similar values, so keep that in mind.
So, to answer your initial question, “What is the best type of partner for me?” when it comes right down to it, the answer is inside yourself just waiting to come out!